When booking an escort—especially an independent or high-end provider—you may be asked to go through a screening process. This can include verifying your identity and, in some cases, paying a deposit upfront. If you’re new to this world, this might feel unusual. But rest assured, it’s not only common—it’s a key part of ensuring safety and professionalism on both sides.

In this guide, we’ll explain what screening typically involves, why deposits are sometimes required, what counts as a red flag (from both the client and provider’s side), and how you can approach bookings with confidence and respect.

Why Do Providers Screen Clients?

Screening isn’t about invading your privacy—it’s a safety protocol. Just as you’re making sure you’re meeting someone trustworthy and real, providers also want to feel safe and protected. Being cooperative and understanding throughout this process helps build mutual trust from the very beginning.

Client screening is a crucial part of ensuring safety for everyone involved. Providers often operate alone and need to verify who they’re meeting. Screening helps prevent dangerous situations, time-wasters, or no-shows.

In fact, screening is a normal and expected part of booking—especially with reputable or high-end companions. It’s not something to be suspicious about; rather, it’s a positive sign that the provider values professionalism and safety.

Common Screening Methods You Might Encounter

Each provider may use slightly different screening methods, but here are the most common ones you should be aware of:

1. Photo ID Verification

You may be asked to submit a photo of your government-issued ID (e.g., passport or driver’s license), sometimes alongside a selfie or via a short video call.

📌 Tip: It’s standard and acceptable to obscure or blur your address or ID number when sharing your ID—only your name, photo, and birthdate need to be visible.

This step is not about storing your data—it’s just a quick way to confirm you are who you say you are.

2. Employment or Social Presence Verification

Some providers may ask where you work or request a link to your LinkedIn or another social media account. This is another way to verify you’re a real person. You’re not expected to share anything that compromises your privacy—just enough to establish legitimacy.

3. Reference Checks

In more established circles, you might be asked to provide a reference from another provider you’ve previously seen. If this is your first time, don’t worry—many providers are happy to screen first-timers using alternate methods.

4. Deposits

Some providers require a deposit to confirm your booking. This is becoming increasingly common and isn’t something to be alarmed by.

• Most deposits are between 20–30% of the booking fee.
• For well-known or high-end companions, especially if it’s your first time seeing them, a deposit may be as high as 50%.

This protects providers from last-minute cancellations or no-shows and also gives you priority.

🚩 Red flag tip: If a provider asks for 100% payment in advance without any form of verification or doesn’t offer any way to confirm their legitimacy (such as verified ads, reviews, or a website), it’s okay to be cautious.

5. Phone or Video Call

A short phone or video call helps break the ice, confirm your identity, and allows both of you to get a sense of comfort before meeting. Many providers won’t accept bookings from blocked or private numbers, which is a standard boundary.

6. Screening Forms or Questionnaires

You may be asked to fill out a simple form with your basic details: name, age, location, screening references, etc. It’s just a way for the provider to keep track of their appointments securely.

What You Should Watch Out For

Just as providers look for red flags in clients, you should be mindful of the following warning signs in return:

• Requests for full payment upfront without any verification or credibility.
• Pushy or overly aggressive communication.
• A lack of verified presence online (e.g., no reviews, no social media, no website).

Trust is a two-way street. If something feels off—whether from a provider or a client—it’s okay to walk away.

Tips for a Smooth Screening Process

• Be honest. Falsified info often leads to declined bookings.
• Respect the provider’s screening process. It’s in place to ensure safety and a positive experience.
• Be patient. Some providers may not respond immediately—many work independently and manage all their communication themselves.
• Understand that screening helps protect both parties. It’s not a judgment of your character; it’s a professional step to ensure mutual safety.

Final Thoughts

Screening may seem intimidating at first, but it’s a standard part of the adult industry that helps protect everyone involved. Approaching it with an open mind and a respectful attitude will not only increase your chances of a successful booking—it also sets the tone for a more enjoyable and worry-free experience.

Remember, high-quality providers want to attract respectful and reliable clients, just as clients want to meet genuine and professional providers. Mutual trust starts with transparency.

Need more advice as a first-time client?
Check out our other articles on etiquette, communication, and what to expect during your first booking.